I think I understand what you mean, and I know you don't need it explained back to you but i'm going to post it so maybe people who didn't get it will read this and understand. but if I don't please tell me if you feel like bothering.
Fat people are not more real than skinny people. Skinny people are not more real than fat people. everyone is real, and everyone looks a different way, so any way they look is real. some are inclined to look one way or the other naturally and either is beautiful, real, and should not be exalted nor debased compared to the other.